Loved ones of people laid to rest in graves at risk from shoreline retreat state that indecision on how best to tackle the issue is causing them unnecessary distress about the eternal homes of their loved ones.
Local authorities have identified three church graveyards in the communities of Happisburgh, Trimingham, and Mundesley as being at risk of being engulfed by the sea in the next few generations.
A recent report on the issue details a series of possible actions, from taking no action to disinterring bodies and relocating them in more secure locations. Officials maintain it is for the community to decide how to proceed.
“Right now we’re in a state of uncertainty. It upsets me. My parents wanted this to be their last home, but it won't be because of the encroaching sea.”
Projections indicate at least part of one churchyard could fall into the sea in the next 80 years, but some locals fear it will happen much sooner. “I think it’s got less than 20 years, if you consider what’s occurred in the last 30 years,” one said.
A local business owner remembered a school trip to the neighbouring village of Eccles, which has largely vanished into the sea, along with its place of worship and burial ground.
“You could see people’s bones,” she said. “Certain people hold this romantic idea that people’s remains will just get carried away to the ocean. That is not the case. People will collect remains as mementos and go grave robbing in search of treasures. It’s completely disrespectful.”
“I’m worried that the identical fate that happened at Eccles will occur at Happisburgh and there’ll be skeletons on the shore. I’d be appalled by that.”
Further up the coast is situated the grave of a former paratrooper who died while working abroad. His mother said she lost sleep after learning her son’s grave might one day be relocated.
“It truly trouble me to consider this may not remain his lasting resting place,” she said. “To our family it’s an significant site to visit.”
In her view, new interments should stop but says it is too soon to disturb current plots. “My preference for now is to do nothing and watch carefully, but an timely resolution must be made when a tipping point has been reached.”
The lack of consensus over the timing and method to handle the problem has resulted in bereaved families feeling exasperated and worried.
Several families are calling for more sea defences to slow the inevitable erosion and to allow funerals to continue for now. Different voices contend the time for moving graves is drawing near.
“It is very emotional,” said one relative. “The official study was thorough, but now there’s uncertainty about how it is implemented. And all parties is avoiding responsibility over who is responsible.”
A coastal manager said the graveyards were owned and managed of the local diocese. “In the end it is up to them to choose the direction to take. Our role is here to help support them through that journey with residents.”
It was also stated there was ample time to weigh all the options. “This concerns many years before it begins getting lost.”
“There is no common view on what should be done yet. We need productive community discussions to discover the appropriate solutions for each village.”
The prospect of losing the historic sites was described as one of “immense sorrow for the local community,” but faith leaders also spoke of a belief in life after death, offering a theological perspective on the physical disappearance of sacred ground.